Let's be real, we're all women and enjoy looking cute in nice clothes! Did you know that the way you dress says a lot about you? Ladies, you cannot walk around here with your tight pants, breast out and stomach out, talking about you want a good man. WHAT?! Sis, what you respect, you attract. If you walk around here, half dressed you can't expect to get a man that respects you. It's time for women to start respecting themselves.
"Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself" - 1 Corinthians 6:19
When I was clubbing and partying, I lovedddd skirts. Particularly the short tight ones. I loved to wear things that covered up just enough! I though I was cute y'all! The morning after the festivities were over, I'd upload the pictures to Instagram and watch all the likes boost my self -esteem. Yeah, I was that girl that felt good and slightly had self-worth heightened when I got 50 or 60 likes on a picture where I was half dress. It wasn't until many months later that I had to realize that I was bought at a price. My worth was determined when Christ died on the cross thinking of me. A million likes on Instagram couldn't even come close to the worth that I have in Christ.
"for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body." - 1 Corinthians 6:20.
Respect your body. A real man wants something prized, something sacred. If everyone has seen it, what's special about it. COVER UP, give him something to look forward to if y'all chose to get married. A lot of the time, when you meet in a guy in the club/party and you're half dressed, he's lusting after your body. Got his hands on your hips and he touching on you, and probably don't know your name. Then have the NERVE to ask if y'all can "chill" after the club or wherever. SIS, you are worth more that a "chill" night after the club. You're worth MORE than a one night stand. Don't ever settle just because you're lonely and hoping that y'all could be more than friends. Honor God with you body. Delight in him, do things his way, & watch how fulfilling it can be!
I love you, sis. Know your worth. <3.
Courtney Briana.